Reviewed August 2026

    Mediation in Alabama

    Alabama does not require every divorcing couple to mediate. Under Alabama Code 6-6-20, mediation becomes mandatory in three situations. Both parties can agree to it. One side can ask for it by motion. Or the judge can order it on the court's own motion. Once one of those happens, both parties must take part or risk sanctions. That structure makes mediation common in Alabama, but not automatic. Many family court judges routinely order it before a contested custody or property hearing. Still, no single statewide rule forces mediation the moment a case is filed. Whether a couple ends up in mediation often depends on the county, the judge, and whether either spouse asks for it. Alabama law also blocks mediation outright in domestic violence cases. It sets separate rules protecting what a mediator can be asked to reveal later in court.

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    Mediation in Alabama family court

    When a judge can order mediation

    Ala. Code 6-6-20 governs mandatory mediation in Alabama civil cases. It applies to domestic relations matters too, since the statute has no exclusion for divorce or custody. Mediation becomes mandatory when all parties agree to it. It also becomes mandatory when either party files a motion asking for it. That party pays the mediation cost unless the parties agree otherwise. A trial court can also order it on its own motion, even if neither side asked. If a party refuses to mediate once ordered, the court can apply sanctions under Rule 37 of the Alabama Rules of Civil Procedure. That is the same rule used for discovery violations.

    Court-connected mediation and the Parents Are Forever program

    The Alabama Center for Dispute Resolution operates under the Alabama Supreme Court Commission on Dispute Resolution. It runs a statewide roster of certified mediators, including a family mediation track for custody and visitation disputes. Judges in many circuits refer contested custody cases to mediators from this roster, or to a local court-connected program. Alabama's 41 judicial circuits have some latitude over local practice. Fees and referral procedures vary by county, and not every county offers a free or low-cost program. Confirm with the circuit clerk or family court office where the case is filed.

    Confidentiality and mediator qualifications

    Alabama protects mediation through its own statute instead of adopting the Uniform Mediation Act by name. Ala. Code 6-6-25 states the legislature's finding: public confidence in mediation depends on preventing a mediator from being compelled to testify. The statute sets rules limiting when a mediator can be forced to disclose what happened in a session, protecting the mediator's role specifically. Parties and their attorneys should still ask the mediator or the court to spell out in writing what confidentiality terms apply before starting.

    Mediators who want to join the Alabama Center for Dispute Resolution's official roster, including the family mediation roster used for custody cases, must complete the Center's training and certification requirements. They must also stay in good standing with the Alabama Supreme Court Commission on Dispute Resolution. A judge is not limited to roster mediators when the parties agree on someone else. Couples who privately select a mediator should confirm that person's family law training and experience.

    Domestic violence exemption

    Alabama law draws a firm line around mediation and domestic violence. Ala. Code 6-6-20(d) bars a court from ordering mediation to resolve a petition for a protection order under the Protection from Abuse Act. This also covers any other protection-order petition alleging domestic violence. Section 6-6-20(e) goes further for custody and visitation cases specifically. If a protection order is in effect, or the court finds domestic violence occurred, the court shall not order mediation. Section 6-6-20(f) requires a mediator who does receive a referral to screen for domestic or family violence. Mediation can still proceed if the victim requests it and a trained mediator handles it. The victim may also bring a support person or advocate.

    How a mediated agreement becomes a court order

    Mediation in Alabama does not decide a case on its own. When spouses or parents reach agreement, they write it up and sign it. That agreement is then submitted to the judge handling the divorce or custody case. It becomes enforceable once the judge reviews it and incorporates it into a final judgment or custody order. If mediation does not produce a full agreement, the case proceeds toward a contested hearing on whatever issues remain.

    Sources: Ala. Code 6-6-20, Definition; instances requiring mediation; sanctions; exceptions, Ala. Code 6-6-25, Compelled testimony, etc., of mediators, Alabama Mandatory Mediation Act text, Alabama Center for Dispute Resolution, Alabama Center for Dispute Resolution (operates under Alabama Supreme Court Commission on Dispute Resolution), Alabama Judicial System (Unified Judicial System official site)

    Not independently confirmed

    • Per-circuit mediation referral fees and whether a sliding-scale or free program exists in every county
    • Whether Alabama has ever formally considered adopting the Uniform Mediation Act
    • Exact scope of local circuit rules that make mediation a near-automatic step in contested custody cases

    Mediation in Alabama: frequently asked questions

    Is mediation required for divorce in Alabama?+

    Not automatically. Under Ala. Code 6-6-20, mediation becomes mandatory only when both parties agree to it, one party files a motion asking for it, or the judge orders it on the court's own motion. Many judges order mediation routinely for contested custody or property disputes. Still, no single statewide rule requires it in every filing.

    Can a judge force us into mediation even if we don't want it?+

    Yes. Ala. Code 6-6-20(b)(3) lets the trial court order mediation on its own motion, even if neither spouse requested it. If a party then refuses to mediate as ordered, the court can apply sanctions under Rule 37 of the Alabama Rules of Civil Procedure. That is the same rule used for discovery violations.

    Is mediation confidential in Alabama?+

    Alabama protects mediation through its own statute, Ala. Code 6-6-25. It prevents a mediator from being compelled to testify or produce documents about the mediation. Alabama has not adopted the Uniform Mediation Act by that name. Ask your mediator or the court to confirm in writing what confidentiality terms apply.

    Do I have to mediate if there's a history of domestic violence?+

    No. Ala. Code 6-6-20(d) bars a court from ordering mediation on any protection-order petition alleging domestic violence. Section 6-6-20(e) bars mediation in a custody or visitation case where a protection order is active or the court finds domestic violence occurred. If a mediator is still involved, 6-6-20(f) requires screening and extra safeguards.

    Who mediates Alabama custody disputes?+

    Courts commonly refer contested custody cases to a mediator certified through the Alabama Center for Dispute Resolution. That group operates under the Alabama Supreme Court Commission on Dispute Resolution and maintains a family mediation roster. Parties who agree to mediate privately can also choose their own mediator. In that case, confirm that person's family law training and experience.

    What happens to our mediation agreement afterward?+

    A mediated agreement is not automatically a court order. It is written up, signed by both parties, and submitted to the judge handling the case. The judge reviews it and, if approved, incorporates it into a final judgment or custody order. At that point it becomes enforceable like any other court order.

    This page is general information about mediation in Alabama, not legal advice for your situation. Laws, fees, and procedures change over time; confirm current details with Alabama's own courts before relying on anything here. Virdix is not a law firm and is not licensed to practice law in Alabama. Virdix does not prepare or file Alabama divorce paperwork. It is not a substitute for an attorney licensed in Alabama.

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