Reviewed August 2026

    Mediation in Minnesota

    Minnesota law lets a court set a custody or parenting time dispute for mediation whenever a petition shows the issue is contested. But it stops well short of a blanket requirement in every case. Under Minnesota Statutes 518.619, if custody or parenting time is contested on the face of the petition, the matter may be set for mediation. This can happen before, alongside, or after the case is set for a hearing. The goal is reducing conflict between the parties and developing an agreement that supports the child's best interests. Minnesota draws a hard line around abuse. The court may find probable cause that a party or a child has been physically or sexually abused by the other party. If so, the court shall not require or refer the parties to mediation. That also applies to any other process that requires the parties to meet and confer without their attorneys, if they have one, present. Mediators in Minnesota custody cases must be appointed by the family court. They are generally chosen from a court-approved list, and must meet specific training and knowledge requirements before handling a contested custody matter.

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    Mediation in Minnesota family court

    When a case gets set for mediation

    Under Minn. Stat. 518.619, subdivision 1, the matter may be set for mediation in specific circumstances. That happens if it appears from the petition, or another application for a custody order or modification, that custody or parenting time is contested. It also applies when any issue relevant to a custody or parenting time determination is unresolved. This can happen before, at the same time as, or after the case is set for a hearing. The statute frames the mediator's role clearly. The mediator must use best efforts to reach a settlement, but has no coercive authority to force an outcome.

    The physical or sexual abuse exception

    Subdivision 2 sets a firm limit. The court may determine there is probable cause that one of the parties, or a child of a party, has been physically or sexually abused. The abuse must be by the other party. If so, the court shall not require or refer the parties to mediation. This also bars any other process that requires the parties to meet and confer without counsel, if any, present. This is a mandatory bar once the probable-cause finding is made, not something left to the court's discretion.

    Mediator appointment and qualifications

    Under subdivision 3, a mediator in a Minnesota custody case must be appointed by the family court. The mediator must be a member of the professional staff of a family court, a probation department, a mental health services agency, or a private mediation service. The mediator must generally come from a list the court has approved, unless the parties agree in writing to someone else.

    Subdivision 4 sets minimum qualifications for anyone mediating a contested child custody matter. This includes knowledge of the court system and procedures used in contested custody cases, and knowledge of community resources parties can be referred to. It also requires knowledge of child development, clinical issues affecting children, and the effects of marriage dissolution on children, plus at least 40 hours of certified mediation training.

    Confidentiality

    Subdivision 5 requires mediation proceedings to be conducted in private. It makes all records of a mediation proceeding private and unavailable as evidence in a marriage dissolution action or related proceedings. This applies to any issue in controversy in the dissolution. This gives Minnesota a clear statutory basis for keeping what happens in custody mediation out of the court record if the case proceeds to a contested hearing.

    After mediation ends without agreement

    Under subdivision 6, if the parties don't reach agreement through mediation, the mediator can recommend to the court that an investigation be conducted. The mediator can also recommend other action to help the parties resolve the dispute before a hearing. The mediator generally cannot conduct that investigation or evaluation. Two exceptions apply: the parties agree in writing after mediation ends that the mediator may do so, or no one else is reasonably available.

    If the parties do reach a mediated agreement, it is typically reviewed with each party's attorney, if they have one. This gives counsel a chance to weigh in on its terms. It is then submitted to the court to become part of the final decree. At that point, it becomes a binding part of the custody order in a Minnesota custody case.

    Sources: Minnesota Statutes 518.619, Custody or Visitation; Mediation Services (Office of the Revisor of Statutes)

    Not independently confirmed

    • Whether Minnesota General Rules of Practice Rule 114 imposes additional statewide ADR requirements beyond Minn. Stat. 518.619 for financial or property disputes in divorce cases
    • Current mediation fee ranges and any sliding-scale or reduced-fee programs by county
    • Whether Minnesota has adopted the Uniform Mediation Act separately from the confidentiality provisions specific to custody mediation under 518.619

    Mediation in Minnesota: frequently asked questions

    Is mediation mandatory for custody disputes in Minnesota?+

    Not automatically for every case. Under Minn. Stat. 518.619, subdivision 1, if custody or parenting time is contested on the face of the petition, the matter may be set for mediation. But this is discretionary. It's not a blanket statewide requirement applied to every filing.

    Can a Minnesota court order mediation if there's been abuse?+

    No. Under subdivision 2, the court may find probable cause that a party or a child has been physically or sexually abused by the other party. If so, the court shall not require or refer the parties to mediation. That bar also covers any process requiring them to meet and confer without their attorneys present. This is a mandatory bar once the finding is made.

    Who can mediate a Minnesota custody case?+

    A mediator must be appointed by the family court and generally come from a list of court-approved mediators, unless the parties agree in writing to someone else. Under subdivision 4, the mediator must have at least 40 hours of certified mediation training. The mediator also needs specific knowledge of the court system, community resources, child development, and the effects of divorce on children.

    Is Minnesota custody mediation confidential?+

    Yes. Subdivision 5 requires mediation proceedings to be conducted in private. It also makes all records of the mediation private and unavailable as evidence in the marriage dissolution case or related proceedings on any issue in the dissolution.

    What happens if mediation doesn't work in a Minnesota custody case?+

    Under subdivision 6, the mediator can recommend that the court order an investigation or take other action to help resolve the dispute before a hearing. The mediator generally can't personally conduct that investigation unless the parties agree in writing afterward or no one else is reasonably available to do it.

    Does my mediated agreement automatically become my Minnesota custody order?+

    No. The agreement is typically reviewed with each party's attorney, if they have one, and then submitted to the court to become part of the final decree. It becomes enforceable once the court incorporates it into the decree.

    This page is general information about mediation in Minnesota, not legal advice for your situation. Laws, fees, and procedures change over time; confirm current details with Minnesota's own courts before relying on anything here. Virdix is not a law firm and is not licensed to practice law in Minnesota. Virdix does not prepare or file Minnesota divorce paperwork. It is not a substitute for an attorney licensed in Minnesota.

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