Reviewed August 2026

    Mediation in South Carolina

    South Carolina requires mediation for contested family court cases statewide. Under ADR Rule 3(a), all contested issues in domestic relations actions filed in family court are subject to court-ordered mediation, with narrow exceptions. Rule 1(a)(1) confirms this applies in all counties in South Carolina. A November 12, 2015 Supreme Court order extended the mediation requirement statewide. Parties do not have to sit through a hearing on the merits without mediating first. Under Rule 4(d)(2), if custody, property, alimony, or other issues remain in dispute and no Proof of ADR has been filed, the parties must mediate those issues first. Only then will the court schedule a hearing on the merits. The only real alternative is submitting property and alimony issues to binding arbitration instead of mediation. South Carolina backs this mandatory framework with a certified mediator roster, a set compensation structure, and a detailed confidentiality rule. That rule protects what happens during mediation sessions.

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    Mediation in South Carolina family court

    Which family court cases must mediate

    Rule 3(a) makes all contested issues in domestic relations actions filed in family court subject to court-ordered mediation, alongside civil circuit court cases. The only exceptions are those listed in Rule 3(b). Those exceptions include requests for temporary relief, contempt proceedings, and family court cases initiated by the South Carolina Department of Social Services, among others. A party can also file a case-specific motion to exempt a case from ADR under Rule 3(c). The Chief Judge for Administrative Purposes can grant that motion for good cause. Good cause includes situations where a party cannot participate due to incarceration or a physical condition.

    How mediation gets scheduled and required before a hearing

    Rule 4(d) governs mediator appointment in family court. If custody or visitation issues are unresolved, the court can order early mediation of those issues on its own motion or a party's motion. More broadly, if any issues remain disputed and no Proof of ADR has been filed showing mediation happened, the parties must mediate first. Only then can the court schedule a hearing on the merits.

    When the parties request a merits hearing, they must name a stipulated mediator or ask the clerk of court to appoint one. If no mediator is stipulated, the clerk appoints a primary and secondary mediator from the certified Roster. The clerk uses a rotating basis among mediators who accept cases in that county. Either party can also request a mediator appointment at any time. Once appointed, an initial mediation conference must happen within 30 days. Mediation must be completed, with a Proof of ADR filed, before a merits hearing can be scheduled.

    Alternatives to mediation and mediator qualifications

    Rule 4(d)(5) lets parties submit property and alimony issues to binding arbitration under South Carolina's Uniform Arbitration Act, instead of mediation. Parties can also submit all issues to early neutral evaluation. Under Rule 4(a), a neutral must either be a certified neutral under Rule 19. Or the neutral can be a person all parties agree is qualified by training or experience. In that second case, the lack of certification must be disclosed, and all parties must give written consent. The Board of Arbitrator and Mediator Certification maintains a public Roster of certified neutrals willing to serve in each county under Rule 4(b).

    Cost of court-appointed mediation

    When the clerk of court appoints the mediator under Rule 4, Rule 9(b) sets the mediator's compensation at $200 per hour. No more than one hour can be billed for preparing the initial conference, and there is no charge for travel time. Expense reimbursement is limited to standard IRS mileage rates and reasonable advanced costs up to $150. A mediator can charge no more than $200 to cancel a scheduled conference. Under Rule 9(c), fees are split equally between the parties unless they agree otherwise or the court orders differently. Fees are due at the conclusion of the conference. A party who cannot afford the fees can file an indigency application under Rule 9(d) before the conference is scheduled. Anyone already granted in forma pauperis status is automatically exempt.

    Confidentiality of mediation communications

    Rule 8(a) makes any mediation communication confidential: oral, documentary, or electronic. It requires the parties, their attorneys, and anyone else participating to sign an Agreement to Mediate protecting that confidentiality. Settlement views, admissions, mediator proposals, and mediation records generally cannot be used as evidence in any later proceeding. Under Rule 8(b), confidentiality is waived as to the terms of a signed agreement once the parties sign it. Rule 8(c) lists narrow exceptions. These include information used to plan or conceal a crime, professional malpractice or misconduct claims tied to the mediation, and establishing or challenging a resulting settlement agreement. Under Rule 8(g), the mediator cannot be compelled to testify or produce records about the mediation in any adversary proceeding.

    Sources: SC ADR Rule 1, scope of rules (statewide application, all counties), SC ADR Rule 3, actions subject to ADR, exceptions, SC ADR Rule 4, selection or appointment of neutral, family court mediation process, SC ADR Rule 8, confidentiality, SC ADR Rule 9, compensation of neutral, indigency exemption

    Not independently confirmed

    • Confirm the neutral's certification requirements under Rule 19 for the Board's certified Roster.
    • Whether any South Carolina family court has an explicit domestic violence opt-out beyond the general case-specific exemption motion under Rule 3(c) was not independently confirmed; a party with a domestic violence history should raise it directly with the family court.

    Mediation in South Carolina: frequently asked questions

    Is mediation mandatory in a South Carolina custody case?+

    Yes. Under ADR Rule 3(a), all contested issues in domestic relations actions filed in family court are subject to court-ordered mediation statewide, with narrow exceptions under Rule 3(b). Parties generally cannot get a merits hearing scheduled until mediation is completed under Rule 4(d).

    Who picks the mediator in a South Carolina family court case?+

    The parties can stipulate a mediator when requesting a merits hearing. If they do not, the clerk of court appoints a primary and secondary mediator from the certified Roster on a rotating basis under Rule 4(d)(2)(B). Either party can also request an appointment at any time using a Request for Appointment of Mediator Form.

    How much does South Carolina family court mediation cost?+

    When the mediator is court-appointed, Rule 9(b) sets compensation at $200 per hour, capped at one hour of preparation time, with no charge for travel. Fees are generally split equally between the parties under Rule 9(c). A party who cannot afford it can apply for an indigency exemption under Rule 9(d).

    Can I skip mediation in a South Carolina custody or divorce case?+

    Only in limited circumstances. Rule 3(b) exempts certain case types, like temporary relief requests and DSS-initiated cases. Rule 3(c) also lets a party file a case-specific motion to exempt a case for good cause. Otherwise mediation of contested issues is generally required before a merits hearing.

    Is South Carolina family court mediation confidential?+

    Yes. Rule 8(a) makes mediation communications confidential and requires an Agreement to Mediate protecting that confidentiality. It also bars using views, admissions, or mediator proposals from the session as evidence later, subject to narrow exceptions in Rule 8(c).

    Can property and alimony issues skip mediation in South Carolina?+

    Yes, if the parties choose arbitration instead. Rule 4(d)(5) lets parties submit property and alimony issues to binding arbitration under South Carolina's Uniform Arbitration Act, in place of mediation. They can also submit all issues to early neutral evaluation instead.

    This page is general information about mediation in South Carolina, not legal advice for your situation. Laws, fees, and procedures change over time; confirm current details with South Carolina's own courts before relying on anything here. Virdix is not a law firm and is not licensed to practice law in South Carolina. Virdix does not prepare or file South Carolina divorce paperwork. It is not a substitute for an attorney licensed in South Carolina.

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