Reviewed August 2026

    Mediation in Texas

    Texas courts can send a custody or visitation case, what Texas law calls a suit affecting the parent-child relationship, to mediation. This can happen because the parties agree to it in writing, or because the court orders it on its own motion. Under Texas Family Code 153.0071(c), this referral to mediation is discretionary. It is not automatic in every case. Once the parties reach a deal in mediation, Texas law makes that agreement unusually hard to unwind. A mediated settlement agreement is binding if it meets specific formatting and signature requirements. A party is then entitled to judgment on it. This overrides the normal Rule 11 settlement procedures under the Texas Rules of Civil Procedure, with only narrow exceptions. Texas builds a specific, detailed family violence objection process into its mediation statute. This gives a party who has experienced family violence a real say in whether and how mediation happens.

    Virdix's document-preparation product currently prepares divorce paperwork for California and Florida cases. This page explains how mediation works under Texas law for people researching before they file. It is not legal advice, and Virdix does not prepare or file Texas paperwork. See how Virdix works for California divorces.

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    Mediation in Texas family court

    How a Texas court refers a case to mediation

    Section 153.0071(c) lets a court refer a suit affecting the parent-child relationship to mediation. It can do this on the parties' written agreement, or on its own motion. Subsection (a) offers a separate option: the parties can agree in writing to arbitration instead. They must specify whether it will be binding or non-binding. If they choose binding arbitration, the court generally must enter an order matching the arbitrator's award. The exception: after a non-jury hearing, the court can find the award is not in the child's best interest.

    The family violence objection to mediation

    Section 153.0071(f) gives a party a specific tool to push back on a mediation referral. At any time before the final mediation order, a party can file a written objection to being referred to mediation. The objection must be based on family violence committed by the other party against the objecting party or the child. Once that objection is filed, the case cannot go to mediation. The only exception: a party requests a hearing, and the court finds a preponderance of the evidence does not support the objection.

    Even if mediation goes forward despite the objection, the statute still protects the objecting party. It requires the court to order measures protecting that party's physical and emotional safety. The parties cannot be required to have face-to-face contact, and they must be placed in separate rooms during mediation. This subsection does not apply to certain suits filed under Chapter 262, which covers emergency removal of children in abuse and neglect cases.

    What makes a mediated settlement agreement binding

    Under Section 153.0071(d), a mediated settlement agreement is binding if it meets two conditions. It must prominently state, in bold, capital letters, or underlined text, that the agreement is not subject to revocation. It must also be signed by each party, and by each party's attorney if one was present at signing. If those requirements are met, subsection (e) entitles a party to judgment on the agreement. This overrides the usual Rule 11 procedure for enforcing settlement agreements under the Texas Rules of Civil Procedure.

    When a court can still refuse to enter judgment

    Section 153.0071(e-1) carves out narrow exceptions, even for an agreement that otherwise meets all the binding requirements. A court can refuse judgment in two situations. First, a party to the agreement was a victim of family violence, and that violence impaired the party's ability to make decisions. Second, the agreement would let someone with a registrable sex offense history, or a history of physical or sexual abuse, live in the same household as the child. Or it would let that person have unsupervised access to the child. In that second situation, the court must also find the agreement is not in the child's best interest.

    Confidentiality and parenting coordination

    Section 153.0071(g) extends the confidentiality protections for alternative dispute resolution under Texas Civil Practice and Remedies Code Chapter 154. Those protections cover parenting coordinators, the parties, and anyone else who takes part in parenting coordination, not just mediation itself. That confidentiality does not affect anyone's separate legal duty to report suspected child abuse or neglect. Parenting coordinators appointed under Texas law must also comply with the Ethical Guidelines for Mediators adopted by the Supreme Court of Texas. Failing to follow those guidelines is grounds for removal.

    Sources: Texas Family Code 153.0071, Alternate Dispute Resolution Procedures, accessed via Internet Archive snapshot because statutes.capitol.texas.gov currently requires JavaScript that automated verification tools could not execute

    Not independently confirmed

    • This research accessed Section 153.0071 through a 2019 Internet Archive snapshot because statutes.capitol.texas.gov's current site is a JavaScript application that automated tools could not render; the current live text should be confirmed at statutes.capitol.texas.gov before relying on exact wording, since the Texas Legislature amends the Family Code regularly.
    • Confirm Texas Civil Practice and Remedies Code Chapter 154, the general ADR confidentiality statute referenced in Section 153.0071(g).
    • Typical Texas county-level mediation costs and whether a given county's family courts maintain a sliding-scale or low-cost mediation program were not independently confirmed and vary by county.

    Mediation in Texas: frequently asked questions

    Is mediation mandatory in a Texas custody case?+

    No. Under Texas Family Code 153.0071(c), a court can refer a case to mediation on the parties' written agreement, or on its own motion. But the statute does not make mediation automatic in every custody case.

    Can I object to mediation in a Texas custody case if there is family violence?+

    Yes. Under 153.0071(f), a party can file a written objection to a mediation referral based on family violence at any time before the final mediation order. The case cannot go to mediation over that objection. The only exception: after a hearing, the court finds a preponderance of the evidence does not support it. Even if mediation still proceeds, the court must order separate rooms and no required face-to-face contact.

    Can I back out of a mediated custody agreement in Texas?+

    Generally no, if it meets the statute's requirements. Under 153.0071(d) and (e), an agreement is binding if it is marked non-revocable in bold or capital text, and signed by both parties and their attorneys. A party is then entitled to judgment on it. Narrow exceptions exist under 153.0071(e-1) for family violence that impaired decision-making, or for provisions unsafe for the child.

    Is Texas custody mediation confidential?+

    Yes. Section 153.0071(g) extends the confidentiality protections for alternative dispute resolution under Texas Civil Practice and Remedies Code Chapter 154 to mediation and to parenting coordination. This does not affect a person's duty to report suspected child abuse or neglect.

    Can a Texas custody case go to arbitration instead of mediation?+

    Yes, if the parties agree in writing. Under 153.0071(a), the parties can agree to arbitration, specifying whether it is binding or non-binding. For binding arbitration, the court generally must enter an order matching the arbitrator's award unless it finds the award is not in the child's best interest.

    What happens if a mediated agreement would put my child at risk in Texas?+

    The court can decline to enter judgment on it. Under 153.0071(e-1), that happens if the agreement lets someone with a qualifying sex offense or abuse history live with the child, or have unsupervised access to the child. It also requires a finding that the agreement is not in the child's best interest.

    This page is general information about mediation in Texas, not legal advice for your situation. Laws, fees, and procedures change over time; confirm current details with Texas's own courts before relying on anything here. Virdix is not a law firm and is not licensed to practice law in Texas. Virdix does not prepare or file Texas divorce paperwork. It is not a substitute for an attorney licensed in Texas.

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