Reviewed August 2026
Washington lets courts send contested divorce and parenting plan issues to mediation. This can happen before or alongside setting a hearing date. Under RCW 26.09.015(1), the court may set the contested issues for mediation. The goal is to reduce conflict between the parties. It also aims to build an agreement that keeps the child in close, continuing contact with both parents after the marriage or domestic partnership ends. Each superior court can make a mediator available. Courts must use the most cost-effective mediation services readily accessible, unless there is good cause to use another provider. Counties may offer predecree and postdecree mediation at reduced or waived fees within one year of the dissolution petition being filed. Where state funding supports it, counties must offer this. Washington governs the mediation process itself through its version of the Uniform Mediation Act. RCW 26.09.015(3) references this act directly. It sets the confidentiality and privilege rules that apply to these sessions.
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RCW 26.09.015(1) lets a court set contested issues for mediation. This can happen before or alongside scheduling a hearing, in any proceeding under Washington's dissolution chapter. The statute frames the mediator's job specifically: reduce acrimony between the parties, and help them reach an agreement that supports the child's close and continuing contact with both parents. Subsection (2)(b) extends this rule to any proceeding involving residential time or other matters governed by a parenting plan. This applies whether the dispute comes up before or after the decree.
Under RCW 26.09.015(2)(a), each superior court may make a mediator available. Courts must use the most cost-effective mediation services readily available, unless there is good cause to use a different provider. The mediator can be professional family court staff, someone from a mental health services agency, or another person or agency the court designates. A county does not need a full family court just to offer mediation. Counties may provide predecree and postdecree mediation at a reduced or waived fee within a year of the dissolution petition being filed. Counties must do so to the extent the state funds it.
RCW 26.09.015(3)(a) states that mediation proceedings under this chapter are governed in all respects by Washington's Uniform Mediation Act, Chapter 7.07 RCW. This means the general mediation privilege and confidentiality rules Washington adopted statewide apply directly to divorce and parenting plan mediation. This chapter does not set up a separate confidentiality scheme.
Washington carves out narrow exceptions to the mediation privilege. These apply to postdecree mediation required by a parenting plan. Communications from those sessions can be admitted in later proceedings for one limited purpose: proving whether a parent used or frustrated the dispute resolution process without good reason. If the same person serves as both mediator and arbitrator in a required postdecree mediation-arbitration process, communications from the mediation phase may be admitted during arbitration and in judicial review of that proceeding.
Even within these exceptions, a mediator cannot be compelled to testify. The exception is a court order for good cause, weighing the need for the testimony against the mediator's interest in appearing impartial. Only the portion of a communication necessary to the specific exception can be admitted. The rest of the mediation stays protected.
Under RCW 26.09.015(4), the mediator assesses the needs and interests of the children involved. The mediator may interview them if that seems appropriate or necessary. Under subsection (5), when the parties reach an agreement through mediation, the mediator reports it to the court and to counsel for the parties. This happens either on the day mediation occurs or at another time the court designates.
Sources: RCW 26.09.015, Mediation proceedings
Not independently confirmed
RCW 26.09.015(1) uses discretionary language. It lets a court set contested issues for mediation before or alongside a hearing. Some counties and parenting plans build in mediation as a required step for postdecree disputes. So mandatory status depends on the specific court and any existing parenting plan.
It depends on the county and your situation. Under RCW 26.09.015(2), counties may provide predecree and postdecree mediation at a reduced or waived fee within one year of the dissolution petition being filed. Where state funding supports it, counties must do this. Otherwise, courts use the most cost-effective mediation services reasonably available.
Yes. RCW 26.09.015(3)(a) applies Washington's Uniform Mediation Act, Chapter 7.07 RCW, to mediation under this chapter. These sessions get the same statewide mediation privilege and confidentiality protections as other mediations in the state.
In narrow circumstances, for postdecree mediation required by a parenting plan. Communications can be admitted to prove a parent used or frustrated the dispute resolution process without good reason. Only the necessary portion can be admitted. A mediator generally cannot be compelled to testify without a court order for good cause.
Yes, if the mediator believes it is appropriate or necessary. Under RCW 26.09.015(4), the mediator assesses the needs and interests of the children involved in the dispute. The mediator may interview them as part of that assessment.
Under RCW 26.09.015(5), once the parties reach an agreement in mediation, the mediator reports it to the court and to counsel for the parties. This happens either on the day of mediation or at another time the court sets.
This page is general information about mediation in Washington, not legal advice for your situation. Laws, fees, and procedures change over time; confirm current details with Washington's own courts before relying on anything here. Virdix is not a law firm and is not licensed to practice law in Washington. Virdix does not prepare or file Washington divorce paperwork. It is not a substitute for an attorney licensed in Washington.
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