Reviewed August 2026

    Mediation in Wisconsin

    Wisconsin requires parties in a contested custody or physical placement case to attend at least one mediation session before trial. Under Wisconsin Statute 767.405(8)(a), the rule applies to any family action where legal custody or physical placement is contested. Parties must attend at least one session with an assigned or contracted mediator. No court can hold a trial or final hearing on those issues until mediation is completed or terminated. Every Wisconsin county must offer mediation. Counties provide it through a family court services office, a cooperative agreement between contiguous counties, or a contracted provider. Parties can also hire their own private mediator at their own expense instead of using the county's assigned mediator. Wisconsin builds detailed domestic violence and safety considerations into this mandatory requirement. These considerations apply at the referral stage and throughout the mediation process itself. This is not a simple opt-out.

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    Mediation in Wisconsin family court

    The mandatory initial session

    Wis. Stat. 767.405(8)(a) requires parties in any contested legal custody or physical placement case to attend at least one mediation session. This includes revision actions under Sections 767.451 or 767.59. No court can hold a trial or final hearing on legal custody or physical placement until mediation is completed or terminated. Under subsection (8)(c), that initial session is a screening and evaluation session. It determines whether mediation is appropriate and whether both parties want to continue. The mediator discusses each party's proposed parenting plan at that session. Each party must submit that plan, containing the information required under Section 767.41(1m), at least 10 days before the initial session.

    When a court can excuse attendance

    Wis. Stat. 767.405(8)(b) lets a court skip the mandatory session if attending would cause undue hardship or endanger a party's health or safety. The court weighs several kinds of evidence in making that safety determination. This includes whether a party engaged in abuse of the child, as defined in Section 813.122(1)(a)-(b). It also includes evidence of interspousal battery or domestic abuse, as defined in Section 813.12(1)(am). The court also considers whether either party has a significant alcohol or drug abuse problem, or any other evidence that attending would endanger a party's health or safety.

    How mediation is provided and paid for

    Under Wis. Stat. 767.405(3), mediation must be provided in every Wisconsin county. Counties can offer it through a county-run family court services office, a cooperative agreement between two or more contiguous counties to share one office, or a contract with a person or entity in the county or a contiguous county. Under subsection (7), parties can instead use a private mediator at their own expense. They must sign and file written notice with the director of family court services and the court, stating the mediator's name and the date of their first meeting.

    What the mediator can do, and when mediation ends

    Under Wis. Stat. 767.405(10), a mediator is guided by the child's best interest. The mediator may include a party's attorney or guardian ad litem in the process. The mediator can also interview a child with or without a parent present, require written disclosure of relevant facts, or suspend mediation so a party can get a court order or therapy. Under subsection (9), financial issues like property division, maintenance, or child support generally cannot be addressed in mediation. The exception: both parties agree in writing to include them, and they are directly related to the custody or placement dispute.

    Subsection (10)(e) requires the mediator to terminate mediation if a party does not cooperate. The mediator must also terminate it if evidence shows child abuse, interspousal battery or domestic abuse, a significant alcohol or drug problem, or any other health or safety risk that continuing would create.

    How a mediated agreement becomes a court order

    Under Wis. Stat. 767.405(12)(a), any agreement resolving custody or placement issues must meet several requirements. It must be written, reviewed by each party's attorney and any guardian ad litem, and certified by the mediator as accurately reflecting the parties' agreement. It is then submitted to the court as a stipulation. The court can approve or reject it based on the child's best interest. It must state in writing its reasons for any rejection. If the parties do not reach agreement, subsection (12)(b) requires the court to promptly appoint a guardian ad litem. If appropriate, the court also refers the matter for a legal custody or physical placement study under subsection (14). That study investigates the child's home conditions, each party's parenting performance, any interspousal battery or domestic abuse, and other relevant factors.

    Sources: Wis. Stat. 767.405, mediation (mandatory initial session, DV exceptions, mediator powers, agreements)

    Not independently confirmed

    • Confirm current mediator qualification and training standards, referenced under subsection 6 on mediator assignment, with the county family court services office.
    • Specific county-level mediation fees and any sliding-scale fee schedule under Section 814.615, referenced in the statute, were not independently confirmed and vary by county.

    Mediation in Wisconsin: frequently asked questions

    Is mediation mandatory in a Wisconsin custody case?+

    Yes, for the initial session. Wis. Stat. 767.405(8)(a) requires parties in a contested legal custody or physical placement case to attend at least one mediation session. It also bars a trial or final hearing on those issues until mediation is completed or terminated.

    Can I skip mediation in Wisconsin if there is domestic violence?+

    A court can excuse attendance under 767.405(8)(b) if the session would cause undue hardship or endanger a party's health or safety. The court weighs evidence of child abuse, interspousal battery, domestic abuse, or substance abuse problems. Mediation can also be terminated mid-process under subsection (10)(e) for the same kinds of safety concerns.

    Can a Wisconsin mediator address property division or child support?+

    Only in limited circumstances. Under 767.405(9), mediation can address financial issues like property division, maintenance, or child support only if they are directly related to the custody or placement dispute. Both parties must also agree in writing to include them.

    Can I use my own mediator instead of the county's in Wisconsin?+

    Yes. Under 767.405(7), parties can hire a private mediator at their own expense instead of using the one the county assigns. They must sign and file written notice with the director of family court services and the court, stating the mediator's name and first meeting date.

    How does a mediated custody agreement become a Wisconsin court order?+

    Under 767.405(12)(a), the agreement must be written, reviewed by each party's attorney and any guardian ad litem, and certified by the mediator. It is then submitted to the court as a stipulation. The court reviews it based on the child's best interest and must explain in writing if it rejects the agreement.

    What happens if Wisconsin mediation does not result in an agreement?+

    Under 767.405(12)(b), the court must promptly appoint a guardian ad litem. If appropriate, it also refers the case for a legal custody or physical placement study under subsection (14). That study investigates the child's home conditions, each parent's performance, and any domestic abuse history.

    This page is general information about mediation in Wisconsin, not legal advice for your situation. Laws, fees, and procedures change over time; confirm current details with Wisconsin's own courts before relying on anything here. Virdix is not a law firm and is not licensed to practice law in Wisconsin. Virdix does not prepare or file Wisconsin divorce paperwork. It is not a substitute for an attorney licensed in Wisconsin.

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